View Full Version : Real Conversation, where to find it?
kdmfinn 06-19-2005, 02:54 PM What or where do you guys go when you feel the need to talk to someone and no one is around? I don't mean just general chit chat, but to talk about deeper things or to express what you're feeling. I've never had a lot of friends and have tended to spend a lot of time alone. I'm not sure why that is, but I'm reaching out more to other people. Just need to have a good deep conversation where someone will actually listen to what I'm saying and not judge.
jackedupcrazy 06-19-2005, 03:27 PM i think thats called a psychologist. If you dont wanna pay money for that then I think your best bet is to develop some better relationships so that you can trust someone. Personally, if you really need to talk to someone who will listen I always turn to my family. You're family is always gonna listen and not judge. At least thats how it should be.
JUC
Doug_N 06-19-2005, 10:24 PM I dont talk to anyone about shit. I'm just gonna wait till I explode and go on a 10 state killing spree! :)
BioHazard03 06-19-2005, 11:15 PM dude...i have the same problem sometimes. sometimes, i just wish that i could talk to somebody about some of the deep shit that troubles me. i bottle some of my emotions. when things bother me, that's when i just keep to myself. i with i could talk to some girls i know, but i just can't. i don't want to talk to my firends about it...
i don't know dude...it's hard sometimes. i generally just end up laying on the couch or my bed. i'll either watch a movie and think or listen to music and think.
if you find a solution or an idea, let me know.
Conversations are for women.
M $
Korean&Proud 06-20-2005, 03:02 AM Masturbation.....
lmao, sorry just had to do that, but to be honest ive always had some really close friends whom I consider family but never wanted to tell them my personal feelings. I mean yah there great guys and were family but its different talking to a gal yah know. it just seems they understand where your coming from and listen pretty well. with a recent move i made (ohio to georgia) I went into school for a couple days and was out. no time to get phone number or even get to know people. so for this whole summer im fucked. I miss home, I miss family, I miss friends. with that stress I keep it to myself and just press on. I honestly believe that lifting helps alot. its definately made an impact in my life. gives me ALOT of time to think, lift, and read. I know yah dont know me but if theres anything yah need to get out than drop a pm.
K&P
johnnyb 06-20-2005, 04:05 AM Be more like Gary Cooper -- The strong, silent type.
MadMatt 06-20-2005, 05:17 AM For starters you might want to leave LA :)
T-Bar 06-20-2005, 09:11 AM K&P you need to spend less time here and more time out of your room. man if you can't meet people at school you're doing something majorly wrong bro. School is the Super Market of chicks. They are everywhere and they don't have their guard up. Get your ass down to the local coffee shop, library, Student Commons... shit there isn't a place around where you can't meet chicks, even over the summer. Best part is during the summer these chicks are feeling the same way. They are LOOKING for guys to entertain them.
montess 06-20-2005, 02:33 PM Go to the bar, bartenders are great at listening, and your not going to tell them something they haven't heard before.
jackedupcrazy 06-20-2005, 05:15 PM Go to the bar, bartenders are great at listening, and your not going to tell them something they haven't heard before.
lol, thats some interesting input!!
Korean&Proud 06-20-2005, 06:17 PM K&P you need to spend less time here and more time out of your room. man if you can't meet people at school you're doing something majorly wrong bro. School is the Super Market of chicks. They are everywhere and they don't have their guard up. Get your ass down to the local coffee shop, library, Student Commons... shit there isn't a place around where you can't meet chicks, even over the summer. Best part is during the summer these chicks are feeling the same way. They are LOOKING for guys to entertain them.
I try to get out as much as I can yah know but its tough when your dads never home and your mom wont take you anywhere. plus the fact I have to wait until december before i can get my license because the laws down here in GA are different than ohio. that combined with the fact I was only in school for three days and I live 35 miles from town out in the middle of nowhere. I try bro I really do but theres no one out where I live thats under 40 or over 12. I hang out with one kid I met who likes to fish, when he can. other than that im pretty much fucked. well thats my story, so i lift, read, and just bullshit around until I can get back home, lmao 7 july. im counting the days. thanks for the concern though bro, really thanks. oh yea, we got out may 20 (went in the 17th of may so school is no longer an option).
K&P
T-Bar 06-20-2005, 06:23 PM Ok then find yourself a 42-46 year old chick. They're horney as hell and love showing young guys the ropes. Plus they're trying to prove something to themselves. It's all good in the dark.
Korean&Proud 06-20-2005, 06:32 PM Ok then find yourself a 42-46 year old chick. They're horney as hell and love showing young guys the ropes. Plus they're trying to prove something to themselves. It's all good in the dark.
lmfao, maybe in the dark but I think thats a little too much for me.
K&P
fishtownflexin 06-20-2005, 08:26 PM Go to the bar, bartenders are great at listening, and your not going to tell them something they haven't heard before.
Your right about that but another person who hears alot of problems believe it or not is in your barber shop. My barber knows all the current gossip and give an honest opinion when you talk to him.
T-Bar 06-20-2005, 10:07 PM Your right about that but another person who hears alot of problems believe it or not is in your barber shop. My barber knows all the current gossip and give an honest opinion when you talk to him.
The problem with a barber or a salon is that they blab like there's no tomorrow. It's not enought that the know information, they have to show off how much they know by telling it to the world.
I don't talk to people. As close as I get is this board.
Mr_Clark 06-20-2005, 11:57 PM Ok then find yourself a 42-46 year old chick. They're horney as hell and love showing young guys the ropes. Plus they're trying to prove something to themselves. It's all good in the dark.
Either that, or buy a nice couch. According to Billy Bob Thornton, they're just as good as Angelina Jolie. And, they don't whine if you want hang out with the guys, don't buy them flowers, etc.
http://news.softpedia.com/news/Billy-Bob-Thornton-Sleeping-with-Angelina-Jolie-is-Like-ing-the-Couch-3321.shtml
bonezone 06-21-2005, 12:28 AM Sounds like sour grapes to me. Yeah maybe it ls like a couch, but I doubt his bony azz ever had one so well-upholstered ! LoL
Bone
montess 06-21-2005, 08:25 AM Your right about that but another person who hears alot of problems believe it or not is in your barber shop. My barber knows all the current gossip and give an honest opinion when you talk to him.
I want to hook up with the girl that cuts my hair, so I can't go telling her everything it would ruin my chances if you know what I mean. Actually I have to see her today I think I may finally hit on her.
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