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T-Bar
07-07-2004, 11:46 PM
I'm talking about breakups. No I'm not in one now. I just ran across a rap song that I wrote back when I went through my last really bad break up. :la We all deal with things in different ways. I'm just wondering what you guys do/did when you're in that situation.

jackedupcrazy
07-08-2004, 01:12 AM
hmmmm. good question bro. I cant wait to be on my own. Do what feels good to you. If you love the girl be with her. If not, go elsewhere. Thats what I am going to do. Keep in touch!!!!!

M$$
07-08-2004, 02:59 AM
You try and bang sleazy strippers, what else?

M $

billy732
07-08-2004, 03:51 AM
I just try and stay focused on me and keep doing my thing. Music does always seem to help. Oddly enough, i seem to always shave my head when i have a bad one and use it as a marker to how much time has passed. Don't really know why but whenever anything big happens I always seem to fell like it's a clean start for me. Weird, I know but that's just what I do. And oh yeah, find out if she has a sister and go fuck over her. :banme

Steel Reserves
07-08-2004, 10:56 AM
I'm. I just ran across a rap song that I wrote back when I went through my last really bad break up..

LOL, sorry bro; I just never pictured you as a rapper :eek:

However music is a good way to deal with a breakup, I've written a couple of my better songs after such things. Of course I'd haveta say my favorite way oif dealing with the loss of a girl i really liked would be to get as smashed as possible :40 :40 :40 :40

SR

Lord Odin
07-08-2004, 11:22 AM
Ha!Ha! A rapper...who would have thought!?! Anyway, I ususally just listen to some old type music...Lenny Williams, Teddy, after that I hit the gym harder than ever for a few weeks. By then I am usually over it. It just depends on how bad the breakup was or how serious the relationship was...

To each his own though...

T-Bar
07-08-2004, 02:55 PM
LOL, you guys are so right. I'm as white as Andy Griffith so I don't know where a rap song came from. I couldn't stop laughing when I found the song. I hardly remember writing any of it, but it's not bad.

I gotta go bust a cap in my peeps ass nigga. 2gun:

TheWon
07-08-2004, 03:27 PM
LOL, you guys are so right. I'm as white as Andy Griffith so I don't know where a rap song came from. I couldn't stop laughing when I found the song. I hardly remember writing any of it, but it's not bad.

I gotta go bust a cap in my peeps ass nigga. 2gun:

Please please PLEASE Tbar make my day and post the lyrics to your rap song! PLEASE!!!

cutmothafucka
07-08-2004, 10:01 PM
bump, come on T, post em, i bet you can spit with the best of them...lmao

T-Bar
07-09-2004, 12:11 AM
Oh fuck, I am going to catch shit for this. But hey, I rag the hell out of everyone here and I'm man enough to take it when I deserve it. So ok, here ya go. A rap song from the king of white. I can't remember but I think I did it kind of like one of Eminem's songs. See if you can get the rythem. Man I'm really going to catch it for putting in that Winnie the Pooh line.





This isn’t how I planned it
not not what I wanted
somehow we were given a life that was haunted.
Screw what she did
I aint laying on the ground.
My head is still up high
when her friends thought I would drown

I’m a father, who doesn’t need you.
I raise my son and read
Winnie the Pooh
I’m busy with my boy every day and every night
My goal in life isn’t to find Ms. right.
You want me to put you up on a pedestal.
Well too bad baby,
that seat is full.

Believe me when I say I’m not trying to be rude
but we don’t need someone to clean
or cook our food.
I don’t have to have you to complete my life.
There are no applications for a mom or a wife.
So go look pretty,
for someone else.
Let another fool put you up on his shelf.
Stop your pretending
and don’t play us
Get out of your 430 & try taking the bus.
I get him dressed.
When he falls ‘I’ dry his tears.
Did it from the start & for the next 11 years.

Good night my son
You know that I am true.
No one will ever step in front of you.
A girl could never take your place
My life is nothing without your tiny little face.

This isn’t how I planned it
It’s not what I wanted.
Somehow we were given
a life that was haunted.
Screw what they do
I’m not laying on the ground.
My head is still up high
when her friends thought I would drown

Lady you’ve been here with a different face and name
It’s that same old system ~
I know your tired game.
You say that you love him & you’ll always love me.
Yet you’re totally fixated on BCBG.
From vacations and dinners
to diamond earrings
do you care about us? NO! Only for things
You don’t ask for much
Just my every dime.
I don’t care about that
but I do about my time.

When he calls out to me
he knows I’m always there
cause I’d rather guard his sleep
then touch eight hundred dollar hair.
Who holds his little hand when he
walks to school?
I know what YOU want
and I’m not that kind of fool

What you take from me.
You take away from him.
Yeah I was dumb in the past,
but never again.
What do I need? You haven’t got a clue
It’s the love of my boy and it sure as hell ain’t you!

This isn’t how I planned it
not what I wanted
somehow we were given
a life that was haunted
screw what she did
I aint laying on the ground.
My head is still up high
when her friends thought I would drown

:bling

billy732
07-09-2004, 05:45 AM
:D That actually ain't that bad. Put it to the right bars and you got yourself a single my man. LOL. Seriously, I never would have figured EVER that you would write rap. See if Cardi can help you out with the beat.

Steel Reserves
07-09-2004, 12:44 PM
Heey, not to bad. I had trouble finding a beat for it though. For some reason I kept picturing you in a small coffee house surrounded by beatnicks snapping their fingers :tongue:

SR

T-Bar
07-09-2004, 02:53 PM
I had trouble finding a beat
SR

I've heard that about you SR. :pisser:

trenman
07-09-2004, 04:29 PM
We all do it in different ways ya know and I have been through a bad one just a few months ago and it looks like another is going to be happening with the same girl so I am getting my mind really prepared ya know because this time is the last time this will happen. Things are good to a certain point but I know deep down she just isnt the one. We were dating for 3-4 years so its always hard but now I have to start thinking about making myself happy first then someone else.

buffdiggity
07-09-2004, 04:49 PM
my break up routine is always the same. I see how many chicks I can fuck in the ass!

Chest Rockwell
07-09-2004, 06:37 PM
Dear lord, T-Bar. I never want to read another crack from you again.

"You say that you love him & you’ll always love me.
Yet you’re totally fixated on BCBG."

bwahhhhhhhhhhh

...and buff...just make sure those are dudes.

Steel Reserves
07-09-2004, 07:06 PM
I've heard that about you SR. :pisser:

I stand by my :tongue:

lol

SR

abs
07-09-2004, 08:21 PM
you dont.. time & replacement is what works... i went and fucked a bunch of strippers and here i am a year later and i still miss the cunt... oh well .. i have a 2003 cbr954rr that i replaced the biatch with and so far it works for me...basically ya need to buy a bunch of toys and start hanging with your single friends more now.. good luck and keep the mind strong :cool:

T-Bar
07-10-2004, 12:42 AM
I'm in a weird place now. Been broken up for almost a year. You honestly couldn't force me to take the lying bitch back, yet I miss the hell out of her every day. In 40 years she's the only girl I've ever fallen in love with. Too weird.

I'll probably forget all about her as soon as my rap career takes off.

Tailyn
07-10-2004, 01:05 AM
I'm tellin ya man~all the good ones are in IOWA!!! Well, one is. ;)

Your rap lyrics were actually pretty good. I was pleasantly surprised...all these years I've loved the next Eminem...who'd a thunk it. LOL

billy732
07-10-2004, 04:06 AM
I'm in a weird place now. Been broken up for almost a year. You honestly couldn't force me to take the lying bitch back, yet I miss the hell out of her every day. In 40 years she's the only girl I've ever fallen in love with. Too weird.
I feel ya T. I'm a bit worse off from you though. I'm only 26 and my ex-fiancee and I have been split up for a couple of years and I wouldn't wish her on my worst enemy yet I still have a special place for her in my heart, I'll never forget her and I'd easily take someone's life if they hurt her; but I don't want her. If that makes any sense. I almost feel obligated to protect her(her father passed away two years ago). Some things just can't be explained and relationships definitely fall into that category.